The husband is speechless, just sending the child to kindergarten. Why did the wife waste 21 million from a rich man? Now I can't help but feel frustrated. Is it good to get a divorce so we can end it?
On August 6, 2024, CTWANT reported that every family has its own problems. Meanwhile, a man recently vented his chest problems on the page of 靠北婚姻2.0, a Taiwanese online community. His wife's story has changed a lot since she sent her child to kindergarten. In order to satisfy my vanity and fear of being looked down upon by others. So I used up his savings of more than 20 million Taiwan dollars (about 21 million baht) and also complained that he only made so little money. He became frustrated and considered divorce.
This husband revealed that after graduating, he was working for a foreign company with an annual income including bonuses of more than NT$2 million (about 2.1 million baht). Every time he got a salary, he would allocate 20% for family expenses, 10% for personal expenses, 60% for buying stocks, and the remaining 10% for saving.
After marriage, he usually takes his wife abroad twice a year, but after she gave birth and the epidemic crisis hit, he stopped traveling abroad. However, he still lives comfortably and with dignity, and his wife respects and takes good care of him. When you get home, you can rest comfortably.
But in November 2023, his company pulled out of Asia. So he was fired. He gave all the compensation he received to his wife to take care of.
Because before he always worked hard, 14 hours or more a day. He was often busy with work and often had to work overtime until late at night. When he lost his job, he wanted to take a break. So I decided to look for a part-time job to do at home. At first his wife encouraged him to stay home and help with the children. But when the child started kindergarten, his wife also changed a lot.
The man continued: His wife sends the child to an international kindergarten. Which uses English as the language of instruction and its annual expenses are 800,000 Taiwan dollars (about 870,000 baht), and he has no say in this matter. But I never thought that after my child went to school, his wife would be grouped with other mothers in the ruling group. And she started spending a lot of money.
The wives often go out for afternoon tea with these mothers every day. She also does repairs here and there. Going shopping regularly. Her behavior has become more and more strange and now he has started to pressure him. Ask him to come back and get a full-time job. Because the income from his part-time job is not enough for her to spend.
His wife started to use insulting words, scold him, and compare him to others, until one time during a quarrel between them, he discovered an unexpected fact. She had spent almost all of his savings and sold all of his stocks. It was more than NT$20 million.
“She uses money to satisfy her arrogance. I’m afraid that other mothers will be looked down upon after spending all their money until there’s nothing left. She turned to blaming me for working for so little money. I’m sorry I don’t have money.” The husband is specified
However, when netizens read his story, they came out in droves to express their opinions. Many people thought that he should stop his loss in this way. It would be better to separate from his wife, for example: “Don’t leave your wife who is starting to turn into a devil. Stop this loss quickly”, “Divorce please, for you and your child”, “I see no reason not to separate”, and “If you don’t leave, only you will suffer”.
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