According to the original idea it seems that having a son in the family provides stability in old age. Without knowing it, sometimes the thoughts and actions of a parent who expresses that he loves his son more than his daughter will also have a great impact on your child’s views about marriage and love.
Just like what happened in China. One family had 5 daughters, but none of the daughters married and had a family. The reason has to do with the father’s point of view.
According to the report, it was found that when the parents were young, they wanted to have a son. But after trying several times in the end, he had a total of 5 “daughters” and his wife eventually had to be sterilized. Meanwhile, the husband always felt that he could not raise his head in the village. Because neighbors with children often look at them with disdain. And sometimes he invades the fields to intimidate. It made him very uncomfortable.
But what consoles him is that his daughter gets good grades. After the eldest daughter entered university, she worked while studying. To ease the burden on parents, after graduation I worked hard. Instead, they saved money just to cover their small living expenses. Most of the money will be returned to all family members. So that the younger sisters could study, under the guidance of the eldest daughter, the sisters then entered college. Although their family circumstances were average. But the degree certificate hanging in the hall was enough to reassure parents.
Moreover, the five daughters are very reasonable. They know that their parents are sad because they do not have a son. After everyone gets a job, they intend to save money every month. Over the years, they worked together to renovate the old house and the land in front of the house. Make parents feel proud and can extend when meeting people in the village
However, the girls were very busy with work. Therefore, no one is married and has a family. Currently, the eldest daughter is over 30 years old, and is considered older than the others. Even in the village, when unable to have a son, the hope of the next father is looking for a son-in-law to marry his daughter
In fact, the eldest daughter had the same love as everyone else. He brought his girlfriend to meet his family as well, but when he learned of the woman’s father’s overwhelming expectations for her marriage, the young man backed away. And the daughter could not do anything. Although she knows that she is dependent on her parents because if she does not want to get married it will be difficult for her younger sister to find a partner.
Eventually, she returns to the village for a blind date and finds a brother-in-law in the countryside. But everything is still difficult. The eldest daughter’s marriage was delayed. It has been postponed repeatedly. Even a matchmaker who advises young men, even if given, will back down. When the father asked for a bride price of 168,000 yuan (more than 800,000 baht), this was considered too high a price for a rural area. No one can afford it.
The father’s concept is that he should save enough dowry as a “pension” for himself to raise such an outstanding daughter. A dowry of 168,000 yuan is not much. But the results made him very sad. I’ve worked almost all my life What’s wrong with planning your retirement? Recently, when the girls came home so he took a photo and posted it online. I hope everyone comments on this.
When netizens saw the photos of the five girls, they all said that they were beautiful and fashionable. She looks like a girl who works in the city. He was very talented with a face full of smiles and looked happily at the parents who were trying to find a son-in-law for them without any complaints at all
“What a happy family, with five wonderful daughters in the family. And why does she still want a son?”
“Parents are very narrow-minded. You shouldn’t ask for an expensive dowry. So that my daughter can have a family. They’re happy, that’s good, but you’re still worried about your life in the coming years. Is that so?”
“Having such a beautiful daughter. Don’t worry at all about not being able to find a boyfriend. But she probably doesn’t want to get married.”
“Yes, the external reason is that the parents want the dowry. But the reason is internal, my daughter does not want to get married.”
“Their faces were very happy. It means they are satisfied with their living situation, but the parents don’t have to worry at all. You can see that their daughter has already made plans for the future.
“Parents always think that children will only be happy if they get married. But true happiness lies in meeting people who truly love each other.”
“Parents who have foresight will not interfere in child marriage or use dowry to plan your retirement. Because when your daughter has a good family she will feel comfortable in the years to come. Really go.”
